Friday, August 24, 2007

Courtship vs. Dating link

Here's a link to a little something I worte a year ago about courtship vs. dating. Maybe it will help some of you answer my pole. The comments are very good too. Some helpful links are among the comments if you have any further question about the topic. Also, you could google the word "Courtship" and find out all about it. LINK:
http://heisheroic.blogspot.com/2006/10/boyfriend-or-not-to-boyfriend-that-is.html#links

Well, I want to hear all about your opinions on this topic! I love discussing this sort of stuff!!!

Lanna

59 comments:

LeeAnna said...
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Will visit soon.

Anonymous said...

Rock on...I hope to see you soon then (in person too!)
Lanna

Austin said...

Hi friend! I love the format of your new blog! I have two things to say about dating vs. courtship:

1) Dating in our society is a bad system that prepares people for divorce and teaches people that it's in their best interest to have trial romantic relationships instead of looking to find who you will marry.

2) Courtship, though often championed as "Biblical," is in fact just the same things as dating - a trial romantic relationship - only with more rules.

My opinion on what you should do? Get to know the person you think you might want to marry. Spend time with them. Talk about your feelings for each other. Talk about the possibility of marriage when there's been enough time. Then figure out if you should marry or not, and do or don't, depending on what God says.

That's my two cents.

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You're 2 cents are very good 2 cents.
Thank you Ausin. When I was said "courtship" I was thinking of it like how you said:

"My opinion on what you should do? Get to know the person you think you might want to marry. Spend time with them. Talk about your feelings for each other. Talk about the possibility of marriage when there's been enough time. Then figure out if you should marry or not, and do or don't, depending on what God says."

I guess I should have made that clear. Sorry... Whenever people ask me how old I have to be before I'm aloud to date I look at them funny, fling my hair back, and say: "Never!" Than they usually ask me to be serious and then I give them basically a little lecture about courtship and how I will go about it and how the world has made dating a stupid game...to cut this short...I basically tell them exactly what you said above.


Oh, Austin, there's something I want to discuss with you darling...something I've been really thinking hard about....I want to get married.....

Not really. You can wipe that smirk off your face now cause I think it appropriate to know a person in person (and I doubt I'll ever meet
you unless I see you when I go to school in San Antonio ~ I am going there by the way~ in a couple years) and even if I did meet you
I'm sure you will have some girl by then ( let me think
...1..2?..3?..years. could happen. you're smart.) and I wouldn't know you for very long cause I'll only be there for one year and ...I'M NOT GOING TO MARRY YOU....so don't even ask....Man, it is so fun to tease you....don't worry... I do thins to all my guy friends!:)

Lanna

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I love the format too. That's a picture I took up there in the corner and it's of my loverly cousin whom I love. I did lots and lots of pictures
that say Make Music Not War...I love it....
Lanna
P.S. if you have time you should get a account on Soaphoto (online photo contest...every month someone wins a new camera (nice ones) and your pics get voted on by other Soa people and they comment on your picures and it's really neat....I have the link in my links. Check it out. And when and if you do search my user name Lanna14.

Anonymous said...

hey, it's me... biblegeek.

i loved reading your comment on my blog... though it was kinda long. :P

i go to Christian school, too... though we have quite a bit more than your 22 high schoolers.

i read the courtship v. dating article that you referred to in your comment, and i must say that i think it's a really brave thing, to write about such a touchy subject.

i hope you do well on your new blog!

~bg

Austin said...

Okay, I'll check out that site. As for marrying me, you can just dream...

Oh, and thanks for linking me, but your link no longer works because my blog address has changed. If you want it to work, change it to teensaints.blogspot.com. Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Ha! Dreaming about marrying you? Who? Daisy? Jo? That wasn't a message for me.....

Okay, I'll change the link.
A saint, huh? You are the one who should keep dreaming;)

Have fun with the photo contest. Let me know what your username is so I can search your pics.
Lanna:)

Anonymous said...

WOW, WOW, WOW...
Lanna wants to marry Austin, hahaha.
I'd like to see that. No, I WOULDN'T like to see that. lol
Haha Lanna has feelings for Austin...that's a good one.

Austin said...

Lanna,

You've got to see the skit I just posted on Teen Saints. It's really good!

Austin said...

My link doesn't seem to be working. Let's give it another shot - Teen Saints

Anonymous said...

both links worked for my comp...

Anonymous said...

My computer has personal issuses. I can't play the movie.:( Dang...stupid...BAD...UGHHH!
Lanna

Ashley said...

Where did Lanna go????? We miss her. She's probably playing her drums, picking zuchinni or chasing chickens. Ha. Lanna the zuchinii pickin' drum playin' chicken chaser. Yay for Lanna! ;)

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Yeah!!!
NOT!
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Anonymous said...

I'm here.
I've just been busy (like Ashley said...drumming, chicken chicken chasing, killing~I mean picking of of the zucchini plants, HOMEWORK, life, you know the drill....)

I've acually been thinking about what to post next and I think I'm going to do a little something about Biblical food laws. What's you guys think?
Lanna

Ashley said...

Okay! Can I argue with you then? heehe ;)

Anonymous said...

Of course you can. I'm not going to stop you! IT'S A FREE COUNTRY, YOU KNOW!!!! jeezzy. People these days...........lol

Ashley said...

Okay I am going to destroy your zuchinni garden and collect your eggs before you get to them (because their soooo yummy!) and you can't stop me because it's a free country!! Yeah! ;) jk

Ashley said...

Oh how I love living in a free country;)

Austin said...

Yo, it's me again. I like the way this blog is looking. But you and I both need to post some more. Seriously.

My blog address has changed again, hopefully for the last time. adisciplesquestions.blogspot.com

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